When someone does you wrong, do you repay them with kindness?

Many times when people treat us wrongly, our first instinct is to repay them in the same manner, but, Scripture warns us not to repay anyone evil for evil, to not avenge ourselves, because vengeance belongs to the Lord. Therefore, when others persecute you, bless them and do not curse them, do not rejoice at their hurt, but weep with them, and be kindly affectionate one to another with brotherly love.